Saturday 16 April 2011

Dominated by habits

Well I am just a human being who created many habits while growing up in different environments, different places, different religions, different peoples around and also the clash of different cultures. People are not born with habits, in my point of view it entirely depends upon your upbringing, your socialisation(surroundings) whether its at home or your school or college. There are different 'Norms' in each socio-cultural division of people. Especially in Nepal we have all sorts of 'Do's and 'Don't Do's. I have been dominated by this habits of mine which makes me mad at myself for not dealing with it. I can't change myself how can I change someone else's Knowledge, Behaviour and attitude. Its like my works sometimes, very difficult to convince people. We don't know their background information, their socialisation, their diet habits, their attitude, their knowledge, their behaviour yet we have to advise them, convince them, put stress on them either way convince them to do the thing that they must do for their own well being. Might be thinking what kind of job is that, well I can tell you about that later.
Lets get back to the title, to be honest there are numerous habits that annoys me but the highlighted ones are:
1. Forgetting to take the mobile or keys while going out from house,
2. If I hold something in my hand for a time being its definite that I will lose it,
3. Sleeping late at night and always say to myself,'I will sleep before midnight tomorrow for sure',
4. Eat and enjoy the food with all my Five senses then realising I might gain weight,uuufffff,
5. Spend my paycheck with both hands and then get frustrated looking at my balance left,
6. Not wanting to brush my teeth at night although I do it every night,
7. Keeping things in safe place and then when I actually need it I CAN'T FIND IT,
8. Going for a grocery shopping and then when I'm finally at the cashier (after all the scanning and    packing) I realise that I haven't brought my Visa card,,aaarrrrgghh,
9. Getting angry very quickly but calm down even quicker then that, the difference is DAMAGE is already done, 
10. Get really offended when someone speaks rudely about Nepal. Trust me this has put me into many discussions with all those people from different places.

Nevertheless, I am still adjusting with all these habits. Sometimes I do get lucky even after forgetting to put things right. I have learnt that sometimes things will just workout itself without you trying hard. I consider myself lucky so far cause I read in one of the article all people are lucky in this world. Well can't say much about all being lucky but atleast I can say that 'we are lucky enough to be born as Human being; the Super brainy, Super powerful (Nepali- Sarwashaktishali, Sarwabuddhimani)  living being ever existed in the planet Earth'.

3 comments:

  1. omg omg!! its much like my list!! esp no.7, so much so that my friends don't trust me with keeping things safely!! i always thought i was crazy 'coz of that not i know there are others like myself. abo mero pani yestai list banunu parko..!! cya bud..

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  2. hehehe thanks buddy. :) u have always encouraged me.

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